Stuck? It’s Not You… It’s What’s Underneath.

Apr 18, 2025

Have you ever felt like you’re doing all the right things but still not moving forward? You’re showing up, praying, trying hard… but something still feels off. Like you’re spinning your wheels and going nowhere fast.

Here’s the truth I want you to hear: you’re not stuck because you’re lazy. You’re not unmotivated. What’s really happening is that you’re emotionally stuck.

I learned this in a moment I’ll never forget.

While gathering photos for my son’s graduation, I came across one that stopped me in my tracks. It was of him after he shot his first buck—a rite of passage in our family. My husband stood beside him, beaming with pride, but my son cried. A single tear slid down his cheek, carrying fear, courage, sadness, joy, and exhilaration all at once.

As I reflected on that sacred moment, I felt God whisper, “This is what it means to be fully alive.”

That moment showed me something powerful: emotions are not our enemy. They’re part of our transformation. But when we don’t process them, they get stuck. And when our emotional energy gets stuck, so do we.

We often end up spinning in what I call indulgent emotions—things like overwhelm, confusion, indecision, self-pity, boredom, doubt, and procrastination. They feel real and heavy, but they don’t actually move us forward. I know, because I’ve been there too.

What began to change everything for me was learning how to honor my emotions without letting them define me. To acknowledge what I was feeling, to allow myself to experience it, to let it move through me instead of staying trapped, and then to choose a new thought rooted in God’s truth.

This is why I have a coach. Because none of us were meant to do this alone...and maybe this is why you’re reading this right now—because you’ve tried pushing harder, praying longer, or doing more, but what you really need is a safe space to process what’s underneath, to let God bring freedom in the stuck places, and to take the next step toward the life He has for you.

The Bible says, “Where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom” (2 Corinthians 3:17). Freedom is possible. You don’t have to stay stuck, and you don’t have to stay small.

If this resonates with you, I’d love to walk alongside you as your coach. Together we’ll uncover what’s keeping you stuck, process it with compassion, and help you move forward with clarity, purpose, and hope. You don’t have to figure it all out alone. Coaching is a safe and sacred space for your transformation.

Are you ready to take that step? Let’s do it together.

With you on this journey,

Megan

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